Tuesday, March 3, 2009

I didn't know it was possible to be this mad at someone I don't REALLY know!

But I am LIVID!!! Jason Mesnick (AKA The Bachleor) is an ASS! I knew what was coming (thanks to Reality Steve) but nothing could have prepared me for the train wreck that was to come at the After the Final Rose!! I knew the whole story. I thought I had prepared myself well, but NO! I was so sickened by what took place I am still not over it!!

Throughout the finale and the After Show, I yelled things at the TV at least every 30 seconds while Hubs just sat back and giggled at me!! I was just so mad I could hardly stand it. The most common words used last night were... "LIAR", "ASSHOLE", "LIAR", "LIAR", "LIAR"!!!! Yeah pretty much he is a LIAR!!! I said other words that are not blog appropriate and honestly I hardly ever say, but I was so mad!

Hubs looked at me at one point and said "Why are you so worked up!" I shot my eyes over at him and said "Because these are REAL people with REAL feelings!" Melissa is a real person and she seemed so genuine and sweet!! I told Hubs last night I just wanted to call her and check on her and hug her! I am pretty sure my husband thinks I need help after that 3 hour hot mess last night!!

Did you girls watch it?? What did you think?

I am so disappointed in ABC and Jason!! I mean come on!! This is supposed to be reality!! We all want to see a fairytale ending. Not some drama filled BS!

I know a few other spoilers for tonight and if you want to know them too go visit Reality Steve. He has been dead on about everything thus far so I have no reason NOT to believe him!

I am still fuming mad... and I just want to sit Jason down and scold him for everything he did!! It's sick and just so screwed up!! And I am telling you... I fully believe in "what goes around, comes around"! And he's got it coming!!! Poor Melissa!

The only thing that would have made me feel better is if she had slapped him!! I loved it when she called him a "bastard"! That's exactly what he is!!

Had the show just played out and Jason really had a change of heart, yada yada yada... I wouldn't be so angry, but the whole thing was orchestrated!! He knew Molly was the one a while back but still proposed... and he has a child for goodness sake!! Think of Ty when you are making these STUPID decisions!!!

Ok, my rant is over :) Thanks for letting me get it out!! :) I am sure there will be more to come tomorrow :)

PS-- Please be thinking about my sweet Dansby... he is getting fixed today and I am a nervous wreck!!! Hugs!!

43 comments:

Krystyn said...

I think you are speaking of the Bachelor, no? I haven't watched that show is so long...

but, I'll be thinking of your Dansby today!

Gwen said...

Praying for Dansby today!!! How are you feeling. I am loving the baby countdown!!! :)

Jennifer said...

I have to be honest. I have never seen an episode of the Bachelor...but...

Good luck Dansby!

Being Brazen said...

*hugs*

Hope it all goes well with Dansby today.

With Love from New Orleans said...

Praying for little Dansby!!

Hope the baby is doing well!! So excited!!!!
XO

Mojito Maven said...

oh yeah Jason is an ASS...seriously I was disgusted watching last night.

And good luck to Dansby!!

Mrs. Newlywed said...

I think I must be the only female between the ages of 18-40 that hates the concept behind that show.

I have never seen an episode.

I hope Dansby is okay!

Justin and Jenn said...

I'm right there with you about him being an ASS. I seriously am having some anger issues towards him. I HATE that ABC were such losers about it too...why did they even have to do that to Melissa? I hope Jason and Molly break up and no girl ever has to have the torture of dating him again!

Lucky in Love said...

Thinking of your puppy today for sure!

I watched it last night and was shouting liar at the tv as well! I bet my husband was giving me the same looks as yours :)

And I thought the exact same thing about Ty. Why would you bring a woman into his life...spend the holidays with her...all the while knowing you wanted someone else and you would be leaving her for that person in a few weeks. I'm sure Ty is so confused! It's just irresponsible!

Island Girl said...

I was yelling a the tv too! I'm so mad! Nothing I read actual prepared me for last night...I really wish Molly hadn't taken him back, grrr!

Thoughts and prayers for your little baby today! So cute!

southern daze said...

Ditto to everything you said. Although I too knew what was coming, I hoped upon hope that the "spoiler" was wrong. The "After the Rose" special was HORRIBLE and incredibly difficult/awkward to watch. I've been pulling for Jason since last season and really believed he was out to do the "right" thing. What happened last night is not right in the least bit. Really, things are different since the cameras stopped rolling? Hmmm...you don't say? I'm so disappointed in him for not trying to make it work with Melissa. I mean, come on, it has only been 6 weeks! So now Ty's been exposed to Melissa (they did spend ALL of the holidays together or so they said about five times last night!) and all of sudden his dad will be with someone else. Talk about a roller coaster ride.

I'm not sure if I'm more mad at Jason/ABC for doing this or at myself for falling into the trap and truly pulling for him. I think that was my last season of The Bachelor. I just can't take anymore.

The Shabby Princess said...

Hugs to Dansby!!

Ugh, seriously with The Bachelor--think of your son! What a terrible example!!

Megan said...

I didn't watch it--and this is the exact reason! I get too caught up in it and I feel bad for those that get hurt!

Amanda said...

Ok... So I have been waiting to see what you would have to say about this CRAZYNESS! He is such a jerk. I must say that I was yelling at the TV also. May I just point out that not too long ago you were VERY serious about signing me up (filling out my application, even writing a blog about it) to be on this stupid stupid show... aren't we glad that didn't happen, ha!
Love you girl!

Emily said...

Welll I was soo mad too and so was my hubs he said "remind me never to get into this show again!" Also, asshole and liar are a lot better then what I was yelling at the tv.. i was calling him an effer.... but not the edited version! ha!We loved when Melissa called him a bastard! amazing:)
Praying for lil dansby and lil baby:)

Risa said...

I can't believe Jason either. He's such a jerk. All I could think was poor Melissa and how alone she was through all of this. He's a grown man and should know what he wants in life. GRRRR! I thought what Melissa had to say in the limo was so real. I think she's been the most real out of any of them.

Ms. Florida Transplant said...

I knew what was coming, but I was still in shock.

I'm so glad Melissa called him a bastard.

I can't wait to hear updates on him & Molly...

He had to have gotten paid BIG BUCKS to do that if it really was planned.

Brown Eyed Girl said...

I was so pissed watching that last night! Like you, I knew it was coming and thought I was prepared, but I was wrong!! I felt SO bad for Melissa!! Poor thing! I wish she would have slapped him too! He is such a prick! Him and Molly both made me sick!! How can you be so lovey dovey with someone you haven't spoken with in 2 month?? Riiiight!

Praying for Dansby! Let us know how everything goes.

Tracy's Porch said...

I was so sick last night. I think Molly and Jason are bad actors. I'm sorry - but she knew. She had a twinkle in her eye and a smile when she came out. She didn't act like jilted girls in the past. And, for her to take him back that quickly, not to be angry and to be kissing at the end??? Makes me so sick. I felt so terrible for Melissa.

I was telling my friend this morning that I don't want to watch any more seasons but it is going to be hard - especially since Jillian will be the next Bachlorette.

and...Good Luck, Dansby!!!

Leslie said...

I am so with you!!! Jason is far too dependent on his "feelings" and has no concept of the fact that relationships can't stay in wine-and-roses phase forever. Melissa was right on when she said, "You chose me, but you won't fight for me." go girl!

Rachel said...

I could not agree more!! We were all screaming at the TV last night!! LIAR LIAR LIAR!!

BTW - Congratulations!!! We are only a few weeks apart!! I cracked up at your post below on the cravings - we are like soul sisters as I crave the EXACT same things =)!! Enjoy yourself and get your rest!!! I am going to start following so I can keep up with you and the baby!!!!

Milltini said...

I totally think poor little Ty is the real victim in the end of it...

Tara Gibson said...

I was so mad even though I knew what was going to happen.. He was such a FAKE and a Liar.. Melissa is WAY better off!

i will say a pray for your baby!

TexasLauren77 said...

Girl...I am RIGHT THERE with you!!! I was going OFF last night on Twitter and Facebook with my sorority sisters in other states throughout that entire train-wreck of an episode!! Seriously...he is a SLEEZE!! And to think he did that with his son involved!!! UGH! Shame on him and ABC.

And, poor Dansby! His little face in that picture makes him so look so sad! I know how you feel, though...I had to have my dog, Harry, "fixed" a few years ago, and I felt terrible about it. Now, his life is so much better off! Try not to worry too much today...he'll be fine! :)

Katy said...

We were yelling things like "Douchebag" and "Asshole." LOL Well it was very odd and awkward, and he is a coward. Us the audiance can finally seewhy this man, or should I say FRAUD tha he really is. He is the reason for all his bad relationships and blaming it on others is not cool.

Chic Runner said...

ha ha ha i love it. I was laughing and thinking the same things! I'll be thinking of little Dansby!

SassyEngineer said...

First off, I'm sure Dansby will be great! Janie pulled through her little operation with minimal affects from the anethesia (a liitle sick after). I think part of that was just due to her having it done at the human society where we got her. They have a lot of dogs to manage and they sent her home hours after the operation. I don't think they did a bad job or anything, it just isn't the same care as a vet.

Onto the Bachelor, I didn't get to watch all of the ATFR, but I knew too what was coming. I honestly can't believe that Molly would take him back. If she knew about the set-up, than I don't think she is much better than Jason. If she didn't know about the set-up, why would you want to be with someone who hurt you and another woman and comes crawling back to you??? I also always thought Molly seemed a little young and immature to get married and have a family overnight.

The Reality of Happily Ever After said...

LOL!!!!!! I'm laughing because if we DID watch the bachelor, that would have been EXACTLY my response and EXACTLY D's response... I'm so sorry for Melissa ;(

The Reality of Happily Ever After said...

p.s. -- I'll be thinking of Dansby today!!!!!!! poor thing :(

Texan Couture said...

It was crazy watching that! I personally liked Molly better, but in no way defending what he did to Melissa. Did you read Chris Harrison's blog I forgot where I found the link, but he almost defends Melissa and talks about how great she is. Chris says he will hang out with Melissa along with his wife in Dallas.

http://popwatch.ew.com/popwatch/2009/03/chris-harrison.html

All I have to say to Chris is if ABC wanted a fantasy love story t work out and Jason has truly fallen for Molly why not pick her from the beginning instead of staging this whole dramatic ending?

The Pink Chick said...

I don't even watch The Bachelor, but I saw a clip of what went on and I too am mad! How horrible!

Mrs. Cup said...

Seriously, he makes me sick! I hope Dansby did well!!

Pretty Personal Gifts said...

I don't watch the show but I listen to the radio all day and that's ALL people are talking about. I'd be nervous about the backlash from the public if I were him. People are angry. It looks like Octumom got bumped from the headlines by this guy. How crazy!

Muffy said...

The Bachelor! HAHA! Too funny! Team Dansby!

USCEmily said...

Good luck to Dansby!

I didn't watch the Bachelor, but I have read the re-caps and don't like Jason either. It's not nice to play with someone's emotions like that, especially on television!

Cali Girl said...

the show is sick. if they really planned it that way... so sad! molly is stupid for taking him back.

midnight macaroons said...

I hear ya...Jason is a loser!!! Give a hug to poor Dansby for me. Poor baby :(

Blue-Eyed Bride said...

poor dansby! hope he's okay!

last night was horrible!!! so horrible! i was completely disgusted-- especially knowing that he was A LIAR!!!!

morewineplease said...

the whole show is a joke! I really hope that Melissa was in on this a little...but she did look really upset!

Hope your Dansby is ok!

Jen and Rob said...

Unfortunately, I watched. Should have spent three hours doing something else. Can't believe he would do that to Melissa!

Mrs. Nurse said...

I don't think knowing what was going to happened made it any better. I was still pissed. I think he is a bigger douche that Deanna! At least she didn't get engaged to him and drop him on television. That was just awful!

*~! megs !~* said...

I honestly didn't watch a single episode of the Bachelor til last nite.

And I only watched that to see if Reality Steve got it right. ;)

I was appalled by Jason! I mean come on!! Melissa can do so much better. He cries way too much!! And Molly, girl, no body wants to come in second. Girl, wait on someone that chooses you first the first time!!

writing4612 said...

No, I don't watch that show. They just did that to boost the ratings. Why would someone have to go on TV to find love?

I prefer the old-fashioned way.